I Recommend these Best Essential Oils for Anger Control!

essential oils for anger

Essential oils for anger help balance emotional upheaval and calm the senses.

Since time immemorial, man has tried to understand emotions; scientists and psychologists have studied anger and other emotions but this area of human framework is still mysterious.

Despite all this confusion, one this is crystal clear: emotional upheaval especially anger and aggression can have a toll on your health and wellbeing as well as that of others around you.

Aromatherapy essential oils have been used throughout history to alter the mood. By using pure essential oils for anger aggression and frustration, you can trigger specific chemicals in the brain and calm the body and mind.

How Do Essential Oils For Anger Work?

Essential oils for angry child or adults work in several ways:

Monoterpene Alcohols for Calming

Essential Oils in the floral category such as Rose, Jasmine, Chamomile, Lavender, Calendula etc contain monoterpene alcohols which have calming, sedative, restorative and relaxing properties.

Essential Oils for Grounding and Soothing

On the other hand, essential oils from tree, herbs and grasses such as Lemongrass, Frankincense, Basil etc which contain esters, sesquiterpenes and oxides are grounding, and soothing and help in renewing feelings.

Mints to Lift Spirits

Essential oils from the mint family like Spearmint and Peppermint contain ketones and are energizing and uplifting.

Spice Oils Warm Senses

Likewise, essential oils from spices such as Cinnamon, Cardamom and Cloves warm the senses and contain mainly phenols.

Refreshing Citruses

Essential oils from the citrusy family like Bergamot, Lemon Tangerine, and Mandarin etc contain chemical components like Limonene, Monoterpenes, and Beta pinene. These oils are refreshing, rejuvenating, cleansing and uplifting on the senses.

Aromatic Pathway in the Brain

Essential oils trigger memories and stimulate an emotional response. By inhaling certain aromas, we are “literally transformed to another time and place”. This connection between the brain and aroma creates an aromatic pathway in the brain.

Each distinct aroma is first processed by the brain’s olfactory system which is the sensory system that controls our sense of smell. The olfactory system in turn is connected to the limbic system of the brain where we store memories, feelings etc.

When we inhale a particular aroma, we get a rush of feelings and responses associated with that aroma. Thus, essential oils for anger can be used to enhance well being and manage these emotions.

The very best way to take in aromatherapy essential oils to deal with anger is with a high quality, affordable diffuser.

How To Use Essential Oils For ADHD Anger And Frustration?

We all deal with setbacks, frustrations and lack of inspiration from time to time. In children, ADD and ADHD are very common these days. All these ‘lifestyle disorders’ plant negativity into our lives.

The use of essential oils for adhd and anger can restore confidence, balance emotional upheaval and melt away cynicism and doubt.

Here are some ways to use essential oils for anger, frustration or ADHD in kids...


Essential Oil Massage for anger management

Massage is the best way to prevent temper tantrums in kids with ADD or ADHD. Massaging with essential oil for anger and adhd can reduce aches and pains and promote feelings of confidence, peace, motivation and courage.

Many essential oils like Clementine, Peppermint and Lemon etc can counteract emotions of doubt and plant positivity into your life. Regularly massage with these oils to see results.

Bath Oils

When discouragement and negative emotions weigh you down, take a relaxing bath to which you have added warm scents like Cinnamon or Wild Orange. Such relaxing bath can instill a can-do attitude and promote optimism and cheerfulness.

In angry children, the use of these bath oils which contain monoterpene and aldehydes can be very beneficial and can prevent tantrums and invigorate the mood.


Diffusing essential oils for anger and frustration can revive enthusiasm no matter what your current circumstances may be. When you are faced with a stressful time, diffuses herbal essential oils that are high in esters and phenols.

These aromas are very beneficial in extinguishing boredom and disinterest and can re-ignite your passion, creativity and daring side.


Only a few essential oils are safe for ingestion. If you want to take essential oils for anger internally, make sure you use food grade essential oils only.

Essential oils like Lemon and Cinnamon can be diluted with water or honey and taken orally to calm and uplift the senses.

How To Choose Essential Oils For Emotional Upheaval?

How To Choose Essential Oils For Emotional Upheaval

Identify the emotion you are experiencing.

In order to choose the right essential oil for anger and related emotions, use the following steps...

Anger, Aggression and Frustration

Use Sandalwood, Bergamot, Ylang Ylang, Grapefruit, Peppermint or/ and Orange essential oils. I will discuss some blends you can use to calm angry children. Diffuse the oils and/or massage the blend on the child’s back, forehead and neck.


Use Lavender, Helichrysum, Melissa, Sandalwood, Blue Cypress and Cedarwood. These essential oils are known to boost brain power.

Anxiety and Depression

In case of anxiety and depression, use uplifting essential oils like Rose Geranium, Jasmine, Sandalwood, Bergamot, Clary Sage, Sweet Marjoram and Roman Chamomile.

You can use these oils aromatically, topically (neat) or topically (diluted).

Essential Oil Blends And Recipes For Anger ADHD and Frustration

essential oil blends for anger and frustration

Encouragement Blend

  • 5 drops of Peppermint oil
  • 3 drops of Melissa oil
  • 2 drops each Rosemary oil and Basil oil
  • 1 drop each Clementine and Coriander oils

Mix the above oils and diffuse them by mixing them with water. You can also massage the blend on the neck, back, feet and temples by diluting it first with some carrier oil of your choice.

Cheerful Uplifting Blend

  • 3-4 drops of Wild Orange oil
  • 2-3 drops of Clove Oil
  • 1-2 drops of Nutmeg, Ginger and Cinnamon oils

This wonderful blend will transport you back to your mom’s kitchen-it has all the warm spices one uses in their fall baking recipes. Diffuse the blend or massage after proper dilution on the neck, back etc.

Inspiring Blend

  • 3-5 drops each of Cardamom, Cinnamon, Clove and Ginger oils
  • 2-3 drops of Sandalwood and Jasmine oil
  • 1 tsp Fractionated coconut oil

This wonderful blend will extinguish feelings or boredom and disinterest and reignite your daring and passionate side. Mix all the oils and use for massage, in bath or diffuse it in the room.

Anger Management Essential Oil Blend#1

  • 1 drop Ylang Ylang oil
  • 2 drops Lavender oil
  • 3 drops Orange oil

Mix all oils and dilute the blend with sweet Almond oil. Use it for massaging the angry child.

Anger Management Essential Oil Blend#2

  • 7 drops Bergamot oil (to relieve stress)
  • 5 drops Orange oil (uplift and calm the senses)
  • 2 drops Ylang ylang (lower blood pressure)
  • 1 oz or 2 tbsp Grapeseed oil

To make this anger management blend, mix all oils in a dark glass bottle. To use: dilute the blend with scented massage lotion and apply on the body after bath.

If you know it is going to be a stressful day, apply a few drops on a tissue and or cotton ball and inhale as needed. Always keep the blend in a tightly sealed bottle and use it within 6 months.

Essential Oils for Anger and Aggression-Forgive Blend

Anger and aggression are often a form of grudge, sorrow or overwhelming grief which harms you and those around you. Use the following forgiveness and calming blend to liberate your mind and spirit.

  • 3-5 drops of Myrrh, Spruce, Bergamot, Juniper berry and Thyme essential oils
  • 1-2 drops Citronella oil

Use this exotic blend with your favorite carrier oil to balance emotions.

Comforting Essential Oil Blend

The essential oils in this calming and comforting aroma of the following blend will literally wrap and embrace you on the days you are feeling low.

  • 3-5 drops of Frankincense, Patchouli and Ylang Ylang oils
  • 2-3 drops of Sandalwood and Rose oils

Mix the above oils and massage it after diluting with suitable carrier oil. You can also diffuse the blend.

Peaceful Blend

  • 3-5 drops of Vetiver, Lavender, Ylang Ylang ,Frankincense, Clary Sage, Marjoram and Spearmint essential oils

Diffuse the blend on days you are experiencing overwhelming emotions and thoughts. You can also dilute the oil and use it as bath or massage oil.


Essential oils for anger, aggression or frustration provide a simple way to uplift, calm, soothe and invigorate the senses.

They help balance and manage emotions and can be used by everyone no matter what the age, gender or personal situation may be!

About the author

Jill Holiday

Jill Holiday is publisher of Pure Wild OIls, an e-magazine devoted to articles about the benefits of essential oils and related product reviews.

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